Stopping Automatic
Negative Thoughts (ANTs)
First, NOTICE that you’re trapped in the
vicious cycle of automatic negative thinking (ANTs). Then, decide to
BREAK THE CYCLE by using a "thought stopping" statement (some
examples are below). Finally, find something to DO that takes your
concentration, interest, and focus AWAY FROM those
old negative, vicious-cycle thoughts.
SO WHAT? - This is a stronger and
more determined SO WHAT? than we’ve used before. S. reports that when she
realizes that she’s ruminating on past events that she can raise her voice, with
determination, and say SO WHAT? (loudly) to cut off the ruminating thinking.
Then, she finds something to DO.
WHAT’S IN THE PAST IS OVER, I CAN’T CONTROL
IT, IT’S GONE, FORGET IT, THE PRESENT IS WHERE I WANT TO STAY!
A longer statement that is said more forcefully (not angrily) to put the past
where it belongs – in the graveyard. Focusing on the present ensures that your
future will be bright. Thanks to D.
WHY AM I LETTING MYSELF GET WORKED UP
ANYWAY? IT’S NO BIG DEAL! A reminder that we make mountains out of
molehills. Thinking and analyzing situations just makes us worse – we stop the
overblown thoughts and deliberately move on to something constructive.
Thanks to C.
NO WAY AM I GOING TO LET THIS PARALYZE ME!
I DELIBERATELY TURN MY BACK ON WHAT I CAN’T CONTROL, AND REALIZE I AM BEGINNING
THE "RENAISSANCE" OF MY NEW LIFE.
Thanks to S.
WHATEVER I CHOOSE TO FOCUS ON GROWS. IF I
FOCUS ON ANXIETY AND THE PAIN IT CAUSES, MY ANXIETY GROWS. IF I FOCUS ON MY
PRESENT, MY HEALING STRATEGIES, AND MY POSITIVE PLAN FOR THE DAY, I’M ON THE
RIGHT TRACK FOR A BETTER LIFE! Thanks to
J.
I AM GOING TO PRACTICE USING MY NEW
THINKING STRATEGIES UNTIL THEY GET DOWN TO MY VERY
BONE MARROW.
Technically, we’re "dropping" these
thoughts down into our emotional brain, but the "bone
marrow" concept can be quite helpful. Thanks to T.S.
BEEN THERE, DONE THAT.
I’M NOT GOING DOWN THAT ROAD AGAIN. Thanks to S.S.
MY ANXIETY IS NOT A PART OF ME. I CHOOSE TO
DO OTHER THINGS AND GO IN A DIFFERENT, HEALTHY DIRECTION.
Thanks to T.
NO MORE! I’M NOT GOING TO SPOIL MY DAY
CRYING OVER SPILT MILK! I’VE GOT BETTER THINGS TO THINK ABOUT AND DO. I’M GOING
TO GO DO THEM RIGHT NOW..... Thanks
to M.
WHERE’S MY INSECTICIDE? IT’S TIME TO DO
SOME ANT CONTROL. I’M GOING TO GIVE THOSE ANTS WHAT THEY DESERVE......SOME VERY
SWEET TASTING POISON. Thanks to B.
All statements
written by our own people as indicated --
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