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Anxiety
is a Liar
and These
Are Just the Facts
The only way you can fail....is if you give up.
Anxiety
cannot win....unless you give up.
You've
come so far....it's impossible to give up.
CONGRATULATIONS!
A
setback just means you've made progress -- otherwise, how could
you have a setback?
You
know you're getting better when you can take a
"setback" and turn it into a victory.
Anxiety
cannot win the battle as long as you are persistent and
determined.
You
have made more progress than you think. Your brains' processing
of these small steps always lapses behind your perception of
them.
While
you're in cognitive-behavioral therapy, look at your progress in
three-week blocks. At each three week milepost, you will be able
to see tangible results if you've been persistent and practiced.
No
one ever thinks they make enough progress, and everyone thinks
they are the
"worst" case of anxiety in the world. (Over exaggerating
again, huh?)
This
situation you're going through is not a life-and-death situation.
Take
it easy, loosen up, drool a little in public.
The
world will not end because of your perceived embarrassments.
Yesterday
is gone and will never come back. Today is a new day, a new life.
Does it have to be miserable too?
Don't
take life so seriously.
Humor
cannot exist simultaneously with anxiety. (Laugh and laugh more!)
--
Thomas A. Richards, Ph.D., Psychologist
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